#MyTinderSeries: Unmatching and Judgement

So, I noticed something weird my first couple of days on Tinder. My matches were disappearing. Of course as a newbie--and an old person--I thought it was something wrong with Tinder. Turns out it's something wrong with me. Guys were unmatching me. It's a problem I've had for years. Over 40 years, in fact: I'm…